Cage Pop

We get through the door.

Home after a lovely day together.

"Who's been a good girl?"

"I have!".

"Doggie want to play a game?"

"Woof!"

She starts to pull off her clothes.

Socks, top, jeans, bra.

Scattered everywhere.

A big mess,

she'll pay for that later.

I stand in front of her

and wrap her hands,

turning them into paws.

I go behind her

and wrap a hair band onto my wrist.

I take her hair in my hands,

pulling, uncomfortably tight.

"Wouldn't want you to end up

in a sticky mess.

Not yet anyway"

The bands slips off my wrist.

A couple of twists later,

her hair is in a neat pony tail.

"On the floor, doggy."

"Woof!"

She gets down on her paws and knees.

I reach down and fasten a collar with a leash

around her neck.

"Into your cage."

She gives me a look.

"Who knows best?"

She smiles.

"Woof!"

She goes through the door of the cage.

"Into the corner, no peeking".

She makes her way to the corner

and puts her face to the floor.

I reach in and feed the leash

through the bars,

tying it off with plenty of slack.

She can move freely within the cage,

she just can't come out.

I take a lollipop

and clamp it half-way up one of the bars.

"Who wants a treat?"

"Woof!"

"We're going to play a game.

You can look now.

There's a lollipop for you."

She turns around.

Her face lights up.

Impatient, paws inching forward,

waiting for my words.

"Stay...

Here are the rules.

You can leave the cage

when you've sucked the lollipop

down to the stick.

No biting.

If you bite it,

we'll just start again

with a new lollipop."

"Woof!"

"The only other rule is that

you have to look at me.

No closing your eyes

no looking around.

I have some work to do

but I'll be checking.

If I look at you

I better see your eyes looking back at me.

If I catch you not looking at me

you'll be punished."

"Woof!"

"Good girl.

Suck your way to freedom.

If you work hard,

I'll give you some scratches." 

Making hiking kinky again!

I was hiking yesterday with someone kinky. Neither of us are big hikers, so there was a lot of unscheduled stopping to catch breath. We came up with a rule:

The person who stops to rest gets groped.

It made the hike a bit more fun. So we were thinking about how this would work for a bigger group.

• Obviously everyone has to consent before you start. In particular
• It was just light, over-the-clothes groping, you could go further but hiking is hard enough...
• Sexual orientation, can anyone grope anyone? This is supposed to be an incentive to keep going :)
• Doesn't apply at real stopping points, forks in the trail, scenic viewpoints, real rest stops etc.
• Watch out for other hikers! Maybe you can be discreet even when other hikers are there.
• Is it mandatory? Do I have to grope you or can we just both have a rest?
• If you stop, can you grope back?
• With more than 2 people you need to decide how things work when A stops and B is groping A, then C catches up. Does C
• Get to do any groping?
• Grope A? So the first person who stops becomes everyone's victim.
• Grope B? So you get a kind-of chain.
• Grope anyone who is stopped? So now it's just a free-for-all between people who stopped.
• You're there to hike! Don't just stop and get groped!

Have fun!

Did Tarzan make me kinky?

I have early memories

of sexual feelings and excitement

from danger and pain.

The best explanation I can come up with

is the old black-and-white TV shows and movies

that used to be shown on morning TV,

on weekends and every summer break.

There's one scene that stands out in my memory

and I found it

https://www.facebook.com/warnerarchive/videos/tarzans-desert-mystery-clip/10154304576461563/

I haven't seen this since I was maybe 10.

It's funny because in my memory,

the woman was trapped by the web

but actually it was the child.

That clip is sooooo knky.

It's so full of BDSM excitement!

It's got the sexy lady

and the hunky man

(in those days there was a lot more wobble in a hunky man!).

The child is restrained by the web

and going to be eaten!

That sounds super creepy

but remember at the time,

I was a child.

The evil guy is also bound and helpless

and dies horribly,

eaten by a monster.

It's not a big thing for me now

but I definitely had fantasies about being eaten by a monster.

Even the man-eating plants

that trap Tarzan

are S&M.

Look at him,

almost naked,

struggling in a cage.

Lots of other old shows

had damsels in distress.

Tied up,

chained to a train track,

trapped in a room where the walls squeeze in.

I don't know if these shows made me kinky

or if I liked watching them

because I was already kinky.

I guess the latter

because lots of other people watched them

and didn't become kinky.

Or maybe they just never acted on it.

But I do think fed something

that was already there.

Side-note.

I was surprised to find that "D.I.D." (ディアイディ?),

for "damsel in distress",

is a term in common use in Japanese kink.

I don't think I've heard it used in English.

I can remember a game I used to play

when I was maybe 8.

I would play it on Saturday mornings,

after watching these shows.

I would try to climb up onto a bed

from the floor.

The duvet would slip and I would struggle

maybe I would fall down,

maybe I would make it to the top.

I was imagining climbing a cliff,

like in a scene from these shows,

maybe rescuing someone

or maybe dangling above a pit of monsters.

I didn't understand it at the time

but I definitely gave me some kind of feeling.

It's the same feeling I get now.

That fear, that excitement of being trapped,

knowing what is coming,

unable to stop it.

That moment when she drags the crop slowly across my skin.

My breathing stops involuntarily.

My body is on red alert

but only she knows when and where (or if)

the crop will land.

I think I like that tension,

that loss of control,

more than I like the pain itself.

Wanting what I fear.

Fearing what I want.

It's hard to say.

Of course if the pain never comes

that's no fun :)

So did Tarzan make me kinky?

I don't know

but he definitely helped.

What made you kinky?

Forgiveness

You come in the door.

I'm sitting on the throne across the room.

It doesn't feel right

but you begged me,

"anything you want."

"Strip. Leave your clothes in a neat pile.

Don't make a mess".

You do as you are told.

"Crawl over here,

on your hands and knees".

You get down and slowly make your way to me

across the hard floor.

You stop in front of me,

still on your hands and knees,

looking up through your hair.

"You want forgiveness.

I don't want excuses or explanations.

Do exactly what I tell you,

and earn your forgiveness."

Your eyes are fixed on mine.

I think about what we once had

and what you did to destroy it.

"Put this on",

I point to a ring gag near my feet.

You pick it up

opening your mouth wide to take the ring

and fastening the strap behind your head.

"Tighter".

You open it up again

and pull it tight.

Your mouth is stretched wide

as you fasten it again.

"Put this in",

I point to a buttplug.

You lube it up and push it into place.

You manage to keep eye contact with me

the whole time.

If you had been this well-behaved before,

you would not be in situation.

"Behind your back",

I point to a pair of cuffs.

You close one over one wrist

then reach around to find the other

behind your back.

I hear it click closed.

"Come here".

You walk forward on your knees

until you are close to my legs.

I put my feet by your knees,

stopping your from coming any further.

I open my legs.

"Start sucking".

You lean forward but you're a little too far away.

You almost lose your balance

and pull back.

I give you a disappointed look.

"Do exactly what I tell you".

You lean forward again,

this time you reach the tip of my cock

and slip it inside the ring

before falling forward onto my legs,

impaling yourself,

gagging as my cock hits the back of your mouth.

I feel your tongue starting to get to work.

I move my feet,

allowing you to shuffle forward,

but spreading your legs open as you do.

No longer helpless

You start to lick and suck and pump me in and out.

I reach for a crop

and bring its tongue to your crotch,

probing, teasing, threatening.

You do not break your rhythm.

I pull it back and land a sharp blow between your legs.

Your eyes widen but you do not falter.

I grab you by the hair

and push deep inside you,

hitting you harder and harder,

testing your will.

I can see the pain of each stroke in your eyes

but when I release you,

you resume pleasuring me,

just as you were told to.

What a fabulous fuck-hole you would be.

I want to tell this

but what would be the point?

I have no intention of letting you get me off.

I let you work,

keeping eye contact,

not smiling,

not reacting at all

to the tremendous effort you are making.

Can I forgive you for what you did?

After some time,

I let myself go soft in your mouth.

Grabbing your hair,

I pull you away.

To your credit,

you keep trying until the last.

I stand up

and walk over to look out of the window.

"Go to the bedroom.

Lie on the bed face down,

legs spread".

You start to stand up.

"Go there on your knees!

You may straighten your legs to get onto the bed."

I make a cup of tea

and think about what it would mean

to take you back.

The excitement,

the chaos,

the pain.

Would it be any different this time?

I silently walk to the door of the bedroom.

Exactly as I ordered,

you are face down,

legs spread.

The butt plug shining at me.

I think for a minute about what I'm about to do

and it makes me so hard.

I get on the bed

and move into the space between your legs.

I place my hand on the small of your back

and one knee on each of your legs,

pinning them open.

I start pulling on the plug,

out and in and out and in again.

Watching as your butt hole grows and shrinks.

Finally I pull it all the way out.

I lower myself down onto your back.

I place one hand on your head,

pushing it hard into the covers.

With the other hand,

I guide my cock into your asshole.

I hear your muffled groans as I work my way

deeper and deeper inside you.

I relax, releasing your head.

I move that hand to your throat

and the other hand to your nipple.

Pounding your ass as I choke and torture you,

biting your ears and neck,

cutting off your screams

as I control your breathing.

Listing off your sins and offences against me.

Calling you every name I can think of.

Belitting you in every way I can.

Knowing that I will never do this again.

My decision is made.

Finally I burst inside you.

I collapse on top of you,

burying my face in your hair,

filling my mouth and nose

with that familar smell.

I lie there for a minute

listening as your breathing slows.

I lift myself up

and free your hands.

Your arms fall by your side.

I kneel beside you

and undo the straps of the gag.

You turn your head

and I take it out of your mouth.

You flex your jaw

but say nothing.

I get off the bed

and walk to the side of the room.

I open the top drawer and take out a collar.

Our collar.

I was afraid to even look at this before now.

"Kneel at the end of the bed."

I walk back

and stand in front of you,

looking down.

You are silent.

You know you have no right to speak

but you beg me with your eyes.

Anything I want.

Maybe I should have taken more.

I offer you the collar.

You seem almost nervous

as you reach up to take it.

Then a familiar look inhabits your face.

My eyes are fixed on yours

as I kneel into it.

I bow my head

and hear the collar click.

I am yours again.

Forgiveness.

Tie: Decorative foot tie

Taught to me by Waka at MilkyWay.

1. Start with a base knot on the thigh, near the knee. Tight enough to not slip. The tail of the rope should go inwards (towards the other leg) from the top.
2. Spiral down coming out on the shin, avoiding knee bones.
   
3. Spiral down once more coming over the outside of the ankle.
4. Bring the rope between the big toe and first 2 toes.
5. Point the foot at this point.
6. Wrap it behind to the outside of the foot and around twice, coming back towards the ankle on the second wrap. This catches the stem.
7. Go behind the foot and bring it between the last 3 toes to come back on top.
8. Bring that under the stem towards the inside and wrap one more time. Key point we are now spiraling back up the leg in the opposite direction.
9. Cross the stem and go back under and make a のの字, first going toward toes, under the stem again, then reversing back towards the ankle and under the stem.
10. Wrap once more catching the heel then come behind the ankle to meet the original spiral on the shin
11. Make a のの字 every time the ropes meet
12. Finally tie off somewhere suitable.

Notes

• Rope goes through the toes in opposite directions. First from top to bottom, second from bottom to top.
• Make sure to spiral out in the right direction.

Tie: Captured Overhand Cuff

Based on this tutorial.

This is a cuff that will not collapse or loosen regardless of which direction tension is applied. It involves an overhand knot that is "catpured" from both sides, keeping it stable.

1. Tie the first wrist with doubled-rope.
2. Bring the rope towards the second wrist.
3. Make an overhand knot with the 2 strands. This knot will be the inner-most point of the second cuff. This controls how closely the wrists will be tied. I will call the space before the overhand knot, the "overhand space". It's not a problem if this overhand knot collapses into a half-hitch.
4. Wrap the wrist with the doubled rope and bring it through the overhand space. Pull it to close the cuff to the desired size.
5. Wrap the wrist one more time and it bring the rope back to the overhand knot again. I will assume the wrapping is going downwards on the wrist.
6. Any further wraps should be in the same direction. Only the first wrap should go through the overhand space, otherwise it will get quite crowded.
7. Bring the rope upwards, over all of the wraps, then downwards inside the wraps and pull back towards the first wrist. Ensure that all of the wraps are the same size.
8. Bring the rope to the other side of the overhand knot and make a half-hitch around the 2 strands of rope there and tighten it against the overhand knot (there is 1 wrap between it and the overhand).

Tie: Shinju chest harness

Based on this tutorial

1. Complete a lark's head and half-hitch around the chest. This gives 2x2 wraps above the chest. Ensure the half-hitch is adjusted to point down from the knot.
2. Leaving a little slack, wrap once around the chest under the breasts all the way back to the centre of the back.
3. Pull the rope through the start of the wrap and adjust the slack so that the upper and lower wraps are connected by a short vertical stem.
4. From here, it's essentially another lark's head and half-hitch but with previous step instead of a lark's head. The rope should be leaving the half-hitch going upwards.
5. Wrap once around the stem and take the rope under the top set of wraps and over the right shoulder. This reinforces the stem and stops it from disappearing when the rope is under tension.
6. At the front, take the rope from the shoulder (on the left now) and bring it diagonally down and across the chest to the bottom set of wraps.
7. Slightly past the center (to the right as you face it), bring the rope over the bottom set of wraps then back up between the wraps and the chest, coming out to the left of the incoming diagonal.
8. Bring the rope to the opposite shoulder going under the top wraps. Be careful that tension on the rope does't cause the bottom wraps to bunch up. If there is a lot of space between upper and lower wraps, you might want to wrap the earlier diagonal once to help prevent that space from closing.
9. Coming to the back, take the rope over the shoulder and down under the top set of wraps
10. Reverse direction by pulling the rope over to the other side and lock it off with a half-hitch (or two) on the upper wraps.